The Power of Pen
The Power of Pen: The healing of the soul tapping the Subconscious mind
Our brain is the most complicated yet significant part of our body. It would not be wrong to say that our brains control every aspect of our lives.
The way we think, the way we feel, and the way we act, everything is controlled and monitored by our brains.
The Complex and Fascinating Control Zone: The Human Brain
The human brain is indeed one of the most complex things in the universe. The human brain comes with two distinct yet connected systems: The conscious mind and the subconscious mind. Despite being logical, the conscious mind collects information from our five senses. It helps us to think and rationalize.
Reasoning all through the day is the job of the conscious mind. Surprisingly, the conscious mind, called the logical mind, is not responsible for our actions. The actions we do in our lives are all controlled by our subconscious minds. The emotions that we feel are the gift of the subconscious mind.
Arrival of Writing in Life to Soothe My Pain
Eight years back, my emotions got shattered, and I was clueless about the ways I could heal the pain. I lost my unborn child after carrying the baby for five months. The situation was critical. The doctor could either help save the baby with high medication on me, knowing I would bid adieu after delivery, or take the baby out undeveloped right at that moment to save me. The medical world prioritizes saving the mother over the child, and my husband also supported their decision. I was helplessly lying on the hospital bed and breathing heavily.
I pleaded to my doctor, “Don’t take my baby out, it’s a part of me. Let me die and let my child survive. The baby will keep me alive even after I leave the world.” The doctor’s face looked emotionless. For her, the patient was the top priority, and couldn’t be emotional. My husband came near my bed and hugged me, ” I can’t lose you, and I cannot bring the child up without you. I need you. Please trust yourself, and we will be parents again, have faith. I am with you.” His eyes looked painful, but no tears and I lost my sense after I felt a sharp pinch on my lower spine. Anesthesia pushed! When I opened my eyes, the process was over, and I understood I lost my child.
That was my first feeling of losing someone who is part of me. The pain was unbearable, and consoling me was something that appeared impossible for my better half. But he kept strong as he knew if showed his pain in front of me, he would lose me too.
Crying day and night, remembering the baby was taking a toll on my health, and my husband was worried about me. I can still recall the day when it was raining outside profusely. I was sitting on a bamboo chair, my head lying with an emotionless face on his shoulder, sitting next to me. “Why don’t you pour your pain on a paper and soothe your soul?” his words struck a chord in my mind, and I decided to write, and from that day, I officially started penning my emotions in a diary. An intense feeling of my heart in poetic verse:
Tears reflect as the symbol of our deepest fears,
Even in silence, they narrate our intense emotions,
It whispers the tales of our untold pain,
Tears dance to express sorrow, like a gentle rain.
The droplets paint the face like the silent streams,
Reflecting on broken dreams and shattered screams.
Tears are like rivers and help to erase our fear,
They paint the soul in shades of light to cheer.
Tears, a proof of our souls’ constant fight,
It acts as our guide in the darkest night.
With time, I healed, and life came back on track in a couple of years. I started penning my thoughts, pains, aspirations, dreams, and many more emotions in my diary. But I was unaware of the magic that healed me.
Writing: Healing emotions tapping Subconscious mind
Do you know that Writing (On paper) can be a powerful tool to tap your subconscious mind? I got healed with writing, but how? That I realized a few years back when I observed the changes in my writing patterns, alphabet formations, line gaps, word spacing, and many other changes in my handwriting.
Our deep psyche holds many such beliefs, memories, and instincts, and if we can access it and bring rectification in our handwriting under guidance, it can enhance our creativity and problem-solving skills and will bring self-awareness. That’s where Graphoanalysis and GraphoTheraphy stepped into my life.
Graphology and Graphotheraphy- The Secret Holistic Art
Graphology is the study of your handwriting and the content you pen. If I had been aware of this Physcho science, I could have helped myself several years back to heal faster and do better in life.
Graphology is a subject that analyzes personality traits and cognitive states. It offers in-depth insights into the human subconscious mind. Many consider it as pseudoscience. However, there are countless shreds of evidence to make you believe in handwriting analysis as it offers valuable psychological insights. You will be surprised to know even that many Psychologists and medical practitioners use graphotheraphy to heal their patients.
Embracing the Holistic world of Grapho-therapy
I embraced the holistic world of grapho-therapy and dug deep to discover the flaws, possibilities, and areas of improvement to heal myself. During my journey in this holistic world, I realized the power of writing with pen on paper as that talks about your inner self. Writing on paper (Notebook/ Journal) can be a powerful tool for healing and self-discovery. After becoming a graphotherapist, I helped many people by analyzing their handwriting and content to facilitate emotional release, self-reflection, and personal growth.
Graphology can offer intriguing insights into the subconscious mind. It will help to discover the secrets of your subconscious mind unknown to you. Combining graphology with other psychological tools will guide in understanding of the subconscious mind.
How Graphology and Graphotherapy Transformed My Life
Graphology, helped me get insights about my personality and emotions that I had never recognized in my penned lines on paper. It turned into an awareness tool for me. Graphology helped me to identify my strengths and weaknesses. But was understanding my traits and uncharacteristic features enough to heal me? Certainly No. And for my rescue and growth, the support of graphotheraphy turned must.
Graphotherapy, the practice of modifying handwriting to influence behavior and empowering manifestation, became my tool for personal growth. By adjusting the formation of letters, spacing, baseline, alignment, and other aspects made positive changes in my mindset and actions.
Manifestation, is the art of believing in yourself and working towards what you want. My manifestation started complimenting my writing. With regular writing, I noticed opportunities and positive changes aligning with my desires. This combination of thoughtful writing and manifestation empowered me to realize a sense of purpose and fulfillment. It guided me toward the path of continuous self-improvement.
My confidence increased, and I felt more in control of my emotions and decisions. It empowered me to transform my life and become optimistic and expressive person.
What Graphotheraphy can do for you?
Enhancing Positive Traits: It Can improve your Self-Confidence and boost your optimistic thought process with a more positive outlook on life.
Reducing Negative Traits: Writing with the support of Graphotheraphy can help you reduce feelings of anxiety. It will offer a calm and soothing effect on your mind and control aggression. It can also help you in treating multiple health issues.
Improving Focus and Organization: Regular writing with clear handwriting can enhance your attention, bring clarity to life, and help you express emotions better with detailing. It will reinforce clear thinking and guide for better decisions.
Emotional Healing: Writing will be a meditative and stress-relieving process for you. Practicing graphotherapy can help you manage stress effectively. It will help you articulate your emotions better, leading to emotional release and healing.
Boosting Creativity: Altering your handwriting in a free-form and less rigid pattern will help enhance your creative thinking and what we, as authors, bloggers, writers, and individuals want in life. It will tap into your subconscious mind and open up for new ideas and insights.
The list of the goodness of Graphology and Graphotheraphy is long, and if you wish to learn this powerful subject or want to consult for grapho-healing to make your life better, healthier, and happier, connect with me. I (Samata) am a certified Grapho healer and coach who can help you make your life better. Will identify the root cause behind your problems through your handwriting and content and offer remedies and corrections. Writing in the right way will heal you. I healed myself, and now it’s your turn. Embrace the power of pen on paper.
This post is part of the “The Write Path Blog Hop” hosted by Swarnali Nath .
This blog post is part of the blog challenge ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla in collaboration with Dr. Preeti Chauhan.
I am really inspired by your journey. You have turned trauma into a healer’s paradise. For the pain to be left behind, the brain needs to fill that vacuum and you did with such a wonderful art form. Kudos! Need to look into graphotherapy now.
I had tears in my eyes while going through that part of your life where you’ve so openly shared your loss. You’re a strong lady and it’s so inspiring to find that you’ve been tracking your progress in writing by exploring different forms.
Wow…you are a grapho healer and coach. That’s awesome. I cannot imagine what you must have gone through but I am sure from your personal experience, you can understand others very well. There is nothing more satisfying than using our knowledge to help others.
I also had IUD in 7th month of pregnancy and had similar painful experience after losing my child. during that phase, like you writing had also helped me to heal. indeed, writing had amazing power to heal us. I did not know much about Graphotherapy but your post has made me curious. I will explore more about it for sure.
This was such an emotional read. To be able to talk about such a painful time, kudos to your spirit Samata. I did learn a basic graphology course but the rules were a little complex for me so I did not pursue it further. Putting pen to paper is indeed therapeutic and it was great to read how you used this tool to help you heal.
First of all, hugs to the brave you. It isn’t easy but I’m glad you were able to channelise and heal with your writing. Thanks for throwing light of Graphotherapy. I didn’t know much about it. Does it help heal children too? Do let me know.
Firstly so sorry for your loss! I too have miscarried a child in my 5th month and I know how it feels to lose a child. Strength and hugs to you. Overcoming and coming out stronger from your ordeal is commendable and I am amazed that along with being a writer you are also a graphologist. Reading your post, I learned more about graphology and how it isn’t just handwriting analysis. Thanks for the enlightening post and for sharing your writing journey.
Handwriting is so powerful I never knew. It helps us heal and strengthen our soul. A detailed way of allowing your readers to kearn something new is always a wonder you do. Thanks for such details with every post.
More power to you and to your pen. Thank you for opening up about your difficult journey and inspiring and showing the way to so many others. I learnt something new about writing and healing here today.
Oh dear. Sending you hugs, kisses and lots of strength. The way you have used your grief and hurt to turn around not only your life, but how you’re a mission to help others on the same path, it’s applaud worthy and inspiring. More power your pen and your purpose of using Graphology and Graphotheraphy to heal others
I’m so sorry for your loss. And I know it takes a great deal of courage to share personal grief.
It’s an emotional and enlightening post. I had no idea about Graphotherapy, so I learnt something new.
It is surprising that such a simple act of writing by hand can be so powerful, and yet we have all witnessed it for ourselves. I’m sorry for your loss, it’s nice to know that you were able to heal through the written word. Thanks for sharing your story and the interesting details about graphotherapy.
Wow Samata I had no idea about your sad loss. Neither did I know about your proficiency in graphology. That’s amazing – I’m very intrigued and might consult you at some point.
Dear Samata, I was overcome when I read about your tragic loss and the way you transformed sorrow into your writing is absolutely miraculous. You are an epitome of strength and resilience. Graphology is a word that I have heard but this is the first time I have come across graphotherapy. I am happy that it worked well for you. Thank you for sharing this intensely inspiring post.
This blog got me emotional and also inspired me to become a powerful writer like you. Your words show your strength. Sorry for your loss and more power to you. Thanks for writing and sharing this blog. Learned this new term – Graphotherapy and interested to know more.
Wow Samata, I never knew you are a Grapho healer and coach. I believe in the power of our subconscious mind and have written my experiences on my blog. Today, I learnt a new concept connected to the subconscious mind and will learn more about it.
Samata, you have written so much about Graphology and Graphotherapy in this post and it’s great to learn about them. But the lines that shook me were the incident you shared here. I didn’t know about it and when I came to know about your unborn child, it felt really sad. One of my friend’s didi gave birth to a stillborn child and it was a sad incident. I know a few more like these but I am happy to see all of them getting a second chance in their lives to become mothers with their second children. Just like them all, I am very happy to see you smiling with your son. I can’t be happier than this. Sending lots of blessings and best wishes for you two – love love love for the mother and the son. Thank you for joining us in the blog hop and sharing your experiences and knowledge with us. Means a lot. Gratitude.
Writing is to heal! I so agree with this. For me, writing was so helpful when I was at the lowest. When I wanted help writing was with me. I am grateful how writing has healed me totally
Losing a baby during or after is heartwrenching. I admire the way you healed yourself. I lost my firstborn too but there was no internet or any other way to heal myself. I was told that although I was giving general anaesthesia, I was sobbing throughout the procedure.It is wonderful that you discovered graphotherapy and you are healing others as well.I lost my young son and yet, I am here to tell the tale. Writing is healing for me.Time doesn’t heal it only dulls the pain.
Such a powerful post. Heard of journaling but not graphotherapy. Very good read
I’m speechless, Samata, at your courage to open up about your deep pain, and your amazing healing journey. Kudos and hugs to you. May He always be there for you.
Your child is blessed because he needed only those 5 months of life before moksha. You are blessed coz he chose you as his liberating vessel.
Graphotherapy is a new idea to me. Thank you for introducing thus intriguing topic.
Hats off to you Samata for overcoming grief by making a positive change in your life… that is quite rare. Thank you for sharing insights on graphology and graphotherapy.. both terms are new to me and I didn’t know these could heal. You are a living example of this… wow! My best wishes and more power to you.
Writing is absolutely therapeutic! Thanks for putting this out to the world! While counselling mental health patients, I ask them to vent out on paper. Journaling is an integral part of therapy. Your graphotherapy concurs that. Oh I am loving these kinds of articles from you.
So sorry for your loss, beta. You have taken that pain and transformed it into a way to heal others. God bless you. Thank you for sharing about graphology and graphotherapy.
Hugs Samata. Didn’t know your son was a rainbow baby. Kudos to you to channel the grief and loss. Thank you for sharing about graphology. Sounds interesting. Looking forward to reading more about it.
I’m so proud of you for not letting the pain consume you. I went through something similar in recent past and can understand the hurt, believe me. I had heard about Graphology but didn’t know that it could help in healing as well. Hope you share more helpful insights about it. Lots of hugs, Samata!
First of all, I’m sorry for your loss. You are an incredibly strong woman. It’s amazing how writing had helped you get healed emotionally and be able to enjoy life again. I applaud you for your strength and courage and even write your experience and share it with us. Hugs to you!
I was not aware of your loss, Samata. Your courage to face life fiercely along with healing people with your skills is commendable. More power to you, girl! ❣️
The human brain is like the ultimate control center—everything we do starts there. Writing has been my therapy too! It’s incredible how putting thoughts on paper can heal so much
Samata, You’ve talked a lot about graphotherapy in this post, which is fantastic to learn about. But the lines that rocked me were the ones you posted here. I had no idea, and learning about your unborn child made me very sad. You are strong and powerful and I am sure sharing this probably will soothe you a bit Thank you for sharing your expertise and knowledge with us. It means a lot.
This was such an interesting read.. i know about the power of writing and graphology, and reading about these here and seeing its depth makes me want to go back to these practices too.
This post is so helpful and heart warming. I appreciate the way you came up from your depressed state with the power of pen.Earlier I knew that your writing depicts your personality but never pondered on the fact that it can make a big difference in your life.